Dear Mom Spark, My 4 Year Old is Not Potty Trained

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Dear Mom Spark,

I am desperate for potty training tips.  My 4 year old is STILL not potty trained and I feel like my attempts (taking to the bathroom every hour or so, leave in underwear all day, etc.) have failed again and again.  I feel like my patience is running out and it will never happen. 

I’m embarrassed to ask for help from my “in real life” friends because I’m scared they’ll judge me and my child.  Please, help me with suggestions for potty training, especially for older children.

Thank you,


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